Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Today is Donna's birthday !

Last night when we arrived with her homemade daily dinner (well, I'm trying to get her fatter because sh's awfully skinny now and hates the hospital food) we found Donna very upset. Apparently Nurse Ratchett ( the crazy one from One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest) was all over Donna. While Donna knew I was bringing her some "real" food, she attempted to eat a little of the hospital prepared meal in the dining room. This crazy old nurse made a point to examine how much dinner Donna had eaten, scolded her, made an example of her to the others and basically embarrassed and humiliated Donna as if she were a naughty child. Donna was outraged and very upset. Once I heard about all this I found nurse FRAN and gave her a piece of my mind. A very big piece! Then I called and reported her to Donna's case manager who promises to make an official complaint with the hospital. Hopefully we will never see this horrible woman again. Everyone else has been wonderful, I guess there is always going to be at least one jerk who acts up. I've made quite a big deal of this woman's inappropriate behavior and strongly suggested she get some additional training on how to work with Stroke patients! The case manager was very apologetic and promised to take care of things. Hey, don't mess with my sister when she is down! ! ! ! ! (My red-headed temper let loose on this one and that's not a good thing. Louie calls it 'Doing a Darlene ! Some of you know what that means.)

On to better topics - today is Donna's birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well, could be more stinky than to have to spend your birthday in a hospital? Not much! No worries though, we plan to make this a memorable birthday - one she'll never forget. First there are lots and lots of presents. (She really has no where to put things, except a very small closet and even smaller bedside table). Then tonight we plan to bring in some special food from a nearby restaurant and an ice cream cake ! Probably some balloons and colorful plates, etc. We would love to take her out to dinner but don't think it's quite time. She'll have candles to blow out and we'll sing - unfortunately for her, she'll have to listen to our rendition of Happy Birthday ! I'll try to take some pictures of the birthday girl and post them tomorrow.
Side note - Donna and I are 14 months apart so there are a few months there (my birthday is November 24 and hers is February 11) when we are actually 2 years apart. That makes me feel OLD so I always like it when her birthday finally arrives and I am only ONE year older rather than TWO !

18 comments:

  1. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO DONNA!!! I am so glad she has such a great Sis to ensure she gets a proper celebration filled with LOVE! Hope it turns out Great. Can't wait to see the picture(s). Thank You again Darlene for keeping us informed... Georgia (nurse at LB Hill)

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  2. Darlene, we have never met but after hearing about you from Donna, AND visualizing your personality throughout your delightful and loving reports, it's easier than ever to see the joy and love that has made you guys the persons you are. Thank you! for being there for Donna. As hard as all this has been, I believe God had a hand in bringing her to Memphis to 'get well'.

    We don't know the full extent of what He has in mind for her, but we already know it is more than others thought she had a chance of. Be assured when we get her home to California she will be as loved and cared for and prodded along her path as is possible, because she has a strong network of friends and loved one here, as you know.

    Give her a Happy Birthday kiss and hug from Craig and I, tell her we'll see her soon!

    Barb and Craig Wheaton

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  3. HAPPY BIRTHDAY DONNA! WE LOVE YOU...

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  4. Happy Birthday To Donna from Room 1 staff at LB Hill

    Scott, Doris, Connie, Steven & Maria

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  5. Hey lady! Believe it or not this is the BEST birthday ever. You're here to celebrate it! There will be many more to follow and they will just keep getting better.

    Lots of love from Cheri and the girls in the M.O.V.E. Program at L.B. Hill.

    Way to go Darlene!!!!!

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  6. HAPPY BIRTHDAY DONNA

    ed cathy and kenny

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  7. HAPPY BIRTHDAY, AGAIN..DONNA!
    Was I ever lucky this morning to be able to say "Happy Birthday" to you and for you to say.."It's a better day!" You bet it is! You sound fantastic and I am so happy that you can really celebrate the blessing of another birthday. I wish I could be there with you.
    Love you,
    Loris

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  8. Happy Birthday, Donna! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! You are truely blessed to have such a wonderful family to love and support you! Sallie Kleppe, Speech Therapist

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  9. Donna, Donna, Donna!
    God Bless you on this Special Birthday! We will continue to celebrate this one even when you get back to California! What a blessing Darlene has been for all of us in California, keeping us posted of your progress. We are truly thankful for this Birthday celebration and are happy you are there with family! Just know that we are with you in spirit! Enjoy your celebration!
    Love, Tim, Linda & Cory

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  10. Happy Birthday Donna! Praise God for such a beautiful family!

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  11. Happy Birthday Donna

    Know that Mike and I are with you in spirit. Keep up the good work. Darlene thank you for all of the updates. We here in California feel connected as though we are with you. We're praying for your continued improvement. We'll celebrate when you come home

    Mike and Glenda

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  12. Happy Birthday, Donna! Now I don't feel so old! Can't wait to give you a big birthday hug! :) Thanks, Darlene, for doing such a fabulous job of keeping us all posted on Donna's progress.

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  13. Happy Birthday, Donna!!! How wonderful that you have so many family members and friends there to help you celebrate. We are all toasting you, as we speak, wishing you a happy and healthy birthday...yes, it is 5:00 here in California...
    We check the blog every day and continue to pray for a smooth and speedy recovery.

    Susan Licking, Carol Rosenfield, Cara Peterson, Marie Logan, Louise Kenny

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  14. Happy Birthday, Donna!! Apparently, Nurse Ratchett doesn't know who she's dealing with....too bad for her!
    Take care..
    Lisa Noel

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  15. I love you, Mom. I love you, you are Amazing, I will see you soon!

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  16. Doing a Darlene?
    People, this woman can be scary at times.
    She is the Hillary Clinton of this blog.
    Kind of a Karla Faye Tucker. Better yet
    more like a Elizabeth Bathory and Elaina Bobbit rolled into one.

    I still love her, she's my sister, what else can I say?

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  17. Every year on your birthday your sister gets younger. What a wonderful present! Hope you get our box soon. Roger Brown and the CBI class.

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  18. Well, it sounds like everyone, hospital staff and family alike are now aware of the Wrath of Saint Darlene(Louie's term of endearment)! I hope that Donna had a wonderful birthday as planned. I was able to have a fine conversation on the phone with her today. I can tell she is getting stronger, more coherent and more communicative.
    I must say that prayers, karma, well wishers, good thoughts, SOMETHING greater than us wee humans has had a hand in Donna's healing and recovery, as well as giving her family and Louie strength and decision making capabilities to deal with it. We are so blessed with this, what can only be called, MIRACLE! Hallelujah!

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